John Mayer: Belief
Is there anyone who
Ever remembers changing their mind from
The paint on a sign?
Is there anyone who really recalls
Ever breaking rank at all
For something someone yelled real loud one time?
Everyone believes
In how they think it ought to be
Everyone believes
And they're not going easily
Belief is a beautiful armor
But makes for the heaviest sword
Like punching under water
You never can hit who you're trying for
Some need the exhibition
And some have to know they tried
It's the chemical weapon
For the war that's raging on inside
Everyone believes
From emptiness to everything
Everyone believes
And no one's going quietly
We're never gonna win the world
We're never gonna stop the war
We're never gonna beat this
If belief is what we're fighting for
Is there anyone who
Can remember ever surrendering
With their life on the line?
What puts a hundred thousand children in the sand
Belief can
Belief can
What puts the folded flag inside his mother's hand
Belief can
Belief can
I’ve been on my own personal philosophical journey lately, and after reading tons of essays and Wikipedia postings and whatnot, I’ve come to realize that everyone does believe in how they think it ought to be, and they are not going quietly. Growing up in the church, I heard all the arguments for and against the existence of a God, and never once during the heated debates did I ever hear someone say, “You know, you’re right. I’m totally wrong.” Maybe it happened, in the heart or mind of someone in the room, but I never heard it uttered. If you throw in the countless discussions about the origin of man, morals, knowledge, and life itself, then you realize we’re all just reinventing the wheel and spinning around aimlessly.
When push comes to shove, whether you’re an atheist, Christian, agnostic, or you believe in The Theory of Evolution, or in Creation, I believe we’re all observing the same world. We’re all suffering from the same heartache and despair. We’re all longing for something, though we may not know what that is. No “true” science that can be observed and tested can say anything about the beginnings of this world, which is a total mystery. And no “religion” can necessarily offer up any empirical evidence. It’s all theories; equally unreasonable.
It seems to me that we all end up in a place where we must choose what to put our faith in. The two choices we’re commonly given in church and in the media are Science and Religion, both completely misrepresented by their followers. The atheists seem to resent Religion; either resenting it because they don’t want to be told what to do in their life, or they are scorned lovers who feel rejected and abused. Christians, on the other hand, just seemed scared to admit that the world, and their religion, might not be exactly what they grew up hearing it was, as somehow that disproves the very existence of God. Both are set on being right. It becomes a very personal battle; one that throws around the concepts of reason and logic, but are fueled by bias and emotion.
So many philosophies are looking back to what has happened and why. But what about today? What about tomorrow? Why are we so caught up in the past when we have so much to live for today? Aren’t we all just searching for love and acceptance? Aren’t the strongest arguments the atheists bring the ones where they ask in a very sincere way, “Why would a loving God allow such pain in this world?” and “Why would a loving God send me to Hell?” To me these questions manifest a longing to understand God and how to relate to Him. Relationships and love seem to defy the need to figure out why or how we got here, but instead bring us to the here and now.
Many question the merits of religion, saying it has no practical value. I can’t help but think that Jesus would agree, for He did not set up a religion (and in fact disputed the religions of His day), but as an alternative established a relationship between man and God, and between mankind itself. Jesus’ ministry was not a philosophical or religious one, but one of compassion, healing, and relationships. He came to reunite us with the love that we’re so desperately craving!
So, as the world around me argues and bickers about whether or not God exist, or if anything exists at all, I take the time to sit back and appreciate the blessings I have in my life. For no matter what anyone believes, it won’t take away from the beauty of love.
Friday, September 10, 2010
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Morality: Gray Matters
When it comes to morality, I see it as a spectrum. On one side you find people who follow a black-and-white, checkerboard morality that says that almost every act is either right or wrong, and that every situation has a right or wrong solution. This world can be very legalistic and can produce a lot of guilt if all the rules aren't followed exactly. In this world anything can be regulated, and some people in power seem determined to control as much as they can.
On the other side of the spectrum everything fades to gray. There are no longer the rigid absolutes you find on the other side, and though there still may be "right" and "wrong", they depend much more on the situation than the inherent "morality" of any given action. Several different variables are weighed in each situation, and the "moral" thing to do becomes much more personal and subjective. Though this world can offer some freedom, it can also bring more confusion. It can be hard to find a concrete answer and it can seem like each person is going his or her own way, using a unique personalized map.
Then there are those who throw the whole spectrum out, believing that morality is just a social construct and therefore doesn't actually exist. These people may also believe that there is no absolute Truth, nor is there any meaning to this life. The problem with this theory is that it disproves itself. By stating that there is no Truth or meaning, they have inadvertently declared meaning and Truth.
I believe in a universal Truth, with a capital "T". Something has to be correct. It can't be both black and white at the same time. It may be purple, but it is at least something. Think about history. It too is a matter of knowledge and faith. At any given moment in history, reality happened. The Truth is there. Whether we know exactly what happened is a different thing entirely. JFK was assassinated; no doubt about it. A bullet ripped through his head and he died. Either Oswald did it or a man on the grassy knoll did; or someone else did. I believe that event actually happened, and that someone pulled the trigger of a gun. We may never know exactly what happened that day in Texas, but we can all agree that it happened.
I see morality the same way. Something has to be "good", or "right", or "best" and conversely something must then be "bad", or "wrong", or "worst". Otherwise we couldn't have this conversation.
The problem I have with either extreme of the spectrum is that one side says it knows everything, and the other side says it knows nothing. Though I may not know the answers to every problem that may present itself to me, I do know some fundamental truths that help guide me. I know that stealing is wrong. I can’t really think of any instance where it would be right. On the other hand, I can’t buy that anyone has the unquestionable answer to issues such as masturbation, or cannabis, or voting, or war, or our place as Christians in culture, or piercings and tattoos, or any given topic that’s been debated ad nauseum.
The church leaders aren’t infallible, and the writers of the Bible just don’t talk about certain issues. Too many times our religious beliefs and “morality” has been defined by our culture or those in power. Many of us as Christians grew up hearing that the world is “this” way, and that those who disagree with us are “wrong”. The world is so big and our God is infinite. How can we say with such certainty that we have all the answers, or that we interpreted everything in the Bible correctly? Sure there’s Truth, but do you really think you have all the details down? Do you need to? Didn’t Jesus make it simple for us: Love God and love each other?
The problem comes when you start micro-managing how people use these principles in their own lives, in essence controlling them. We start splitting hairs about almost every little thing imaginable. We soon forget about the original virtues we’re to uphold, and we find ourselves trapped in the checkerboard of life. You can’t go wrong with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law, and to me these are the colors of life.
On the other side of the spectrum everything fades to gray. There are no longer the rigid absolutes you find on the other side, and though there still may be "right" and "wrong", they depend much more on the situation than the inherent "morality" of any given action. Several different variables are weighed in each situation, and the "moral" thing to do becomes much more personal and subjective. Though this world can offer some freedom, it can also bring more confusion. It can be hard to find a concrete answer and it can seem like each person is going his or her own way, using a unique personalized map.
Then there are those who throw the whole spectrum out, believing that morality is just a social construct and therefore doesn't actually exist. These people may also believe that there is no absolute Truth, nor is there any meaning to this life. The problem with this theory is that it disproves itself. By stating that there is no Truth or meaning, they have inadvertently declared meaning and Truth.
I believe in a universal Truth, with a capital "T". Something has to be correct. It can't be both black and white at the same time. It may be purple, but it is at least something. Think about history. It too is a matter of knowledge and faith. At any given moment in history, reality happened. The Truth is there. Whether we know exactly what happened is a different thing entirely. JFK was assassinated; no doubt about it. A bullet ripped through his head and he died. Either Oswald did it or a man on the grassy knoll did; or someone else did. I believe that event actually happened, and that someone pulled the trigger of a gun. We may never know exactly what happened that day in Texas, but we can all agree that it happened.
I see morality the same way. Something has to be "good", or "right", or "best" and conversely something must then be "bad", or "wrong", or "worst". Otherwise we couldn't have this conversation.
The problem I have with either extreme of the spectrum is that one side says it knows everything, and the other side says it knows nothing. Though I may not know the answers to every problem that may present itself to me, I do know some fundamental truths that help guide me. I know that stealing is wrong. I can’t really think of any instance where it would be right. On the other hand, I can’t buy that anyone has the unquestionable answer to issues such as masturbation, or cannabis, or voting, or war, or our place as Christians in culture, or piercings and tattoos, or any given topic that’s been debated ad nauseum.
The church leaders aren’t infallible, and the writers of the Bible just don’t talk about certain issues. Too many times our religious beliefs and “morality” has been defined by our culture or those in power. Many of us as Christians grew up hearing that the world is “this” way, and that those who disagree with us are “wrong”. The world is so big and our God is infinite. How can we say with such certainty that we have all the answers, or that we interpreted everything in the Bible correctly? Sure there’s Truth, but do you really think you have all the details down? Do you need to? Didn’t Jesus make it simple for us: Love God and love each other?
The problem comes when you start micro-managing how people use these principles in their own lives, in essence controlling them. We start splitting hairs about almost every little thing imaginable. We soon forget about the original virtues we’re to uphold, and we find ourselves trapped in the checkerboard of life. You can’t go wrong with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law, and to me these are the colors of life.
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